tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2719233744423338345.post2354090810926915866..comments2023-08-24T07:11:53.802-07:00Comments on The Happy Misfit: Negotiating the PeaceUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger30125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2719233744423338345.post-89153270658487084882011-03-05T10:26:50.295-08:002011-03-05T10:26:50.295-08:00This was a great explanation about the way you cou...This was a great explanation about the way you could negotiate with your own child. Its funny because I laughed as I read through this. It reminded me of the things I have had to do with my own son, but very useful. Thank you.Sabrina Duranthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13663087070853407568noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2719233744423338345.post-46982662392949752882011-03-03T15:32:36.619-08:002011-03-03T15:32:36.619-08:00I cant wait to hear more about it is so good i wi...I cant wait to hear more about it is so good i will tell my mom to read this i will use some of these tricks my self with mt sisters...<br /> thanyou TrianaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2719233744423338345.post-87728139389083057952011-03-03T15:31:11.675-08:002011-03-03T15:31:11.675-08:00Wow this is very goood advise Mrs.Evely. I also ta...Wow this is very goood advise Mrs.Evely. I also take care of my younger sisters at times and its hard work but i will do as you say this is very good...<br /> Thanyou !!!<br /> TRIANA SAUCEDO!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2719233744423338345.post-53991746996586402302011-03-03T08:33:51.542-08:002011-03-03T08:33:51.542-08:00A classical mistake that african parents make. Do...A classical mistake that african parents make. Do this or else method. It works, at times when kids are young but as teens this method doesn't work because just telling a young man or a young woman not to sleep around for instance - will not stop them from sleeping around or hanging out with the wrong company. But if one developes this open relationship with their kids will open up the communication chanels for years to come. Although you were exhausted once done with dressing up your son but you invested in your son and I am sure you are reaping the benefits from the seeds you planted in that young mind years ago.Nokuthula Jeanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09195829345201978293noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2719233744423338345.post-37334735395284890752010-12-20T12:01:31.752-08:002010-12-20T12:01:31.752-08:00Hello Mrs. evelyn
thank you for the tips. Even th...Hello Mrs. evelyn <br />thank you for the tips. Even though im not a mom it still helps to know these things. Thanks again!karina tellezhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05719240591712080641noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2719233744423338345.post-73188998706190400062010-12-18T15:44:09.541-08:002010-12-18T15:44:09.541-08:00this was great! that last trick with the shirt is ...this was great! that last trick with the shirt is perfect! Children like to be in control most of the time,s o giving them choices (and tricking them like that!) its a great way for both of us to get our way.Taniahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01715916656146976603noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2719233744423338345.post-69793108552524473052010-12-16T13:23:57.998-08:002010-12-16T13:23:57.998-08:00Mrs Evelyn thank you for this interesting lesson.i...Mrs Evelyn thank you for this interesting lesson.i will put it into practice with my young brother.when there are relationships the other person always wants to have the upper hand and to keep the peace we have to think creatively.thank younatalie mdonganoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2719233744423338345.post-18524054783392403442010-12-16T05:20:01.123-08:002010-12-16T05:20:01.123-08:00I have no children, but I have two younger sisters...I have no children, but I have two younger sisters and I have seen them do that. They want to decide what they want or what they do not want. This message is a good technique to take care of such a situation.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2719233744423338345.post-9624767884519512012010-12-15T04:56:08.109-08:002010-12-15T04:56:08.109-08:00I am not a parent but this sounds really good.As a...I am not a parent but this sounds really good.As a parent I think one should find ways to stand their ground but also open to negotiations.I work with children and sometimes they just want to have their own way.But if you just negotiate with them in wise way the problem is solved quickly.Even when I was growing up my mother was very open to opinions but in the end she was the one who would win.Its something that we have to learn from children just not to back down if we want something.<br /><br />Betty<br />UKUnknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02549167893461929072noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2719233744423338345.post-49107308508816812010-12-14T22:32:35.987-08:002010-12-14T22:32:35.987-08:00thanks Mrs,Evelyn for the tips!..I myself am a new...thanks Mrs,Evelyn for the tips!..I myself am a new mom of an 18 month old and he's going through the IIIIII ohaze and acts as if he 's always in control, and i'm trying to learn different ways to negotiate and still show love but also disciple!Thanks i will practice this now!Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07201313525734273469noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2719233744423338345.post-87459809686749829922010-12-14T16:35:47.858-08:002010-12-14T16:35:47.858-08:00This negotiation is good because both of them com...This negotiation is good because both of them come out happy with it, it is an extraordinary technique to use...***Raquel Parrashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13420201994766866734noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2719233744423338345.post-40084536567271256072010-12-14T11:13:04.883-08:002010-12-14T11:13:04.883-08:00This are good techniques, Mrs. E.
This is somethin...This are good techniques, Mrs. E.<br />This is something i used to struggle with my little brothers, when i had to babysit them. lolBianca Moctezumahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10274157214928643098noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2719233744423338345.post-61544041181829969892010-12-14T10:11:45.157-08:002010-12-14T10:11:45.157-08:00Mrs. Evelyn,
I enjoy reading your blogs because ...Mrs. Evelyn, <br /><br />I enjoy reading your blogs because many of them help me in my role of "mom of an almost 2 year old". Negotiating the peace is so wise. My tweo year old insists on having it her way. I'll just have to give her more choices...that are agreeable to me.Laura Reading, USAhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13476742351780783389noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2719233744423338345.post-44559369059535445372010-12-13T21:54:48.216-08:002010-12-13T21:54:48.216-08:00Mrs.Evelin, you're awesome! This is a great te...Mrs.Evelin, you're awesome! This is a great technique to use. I have two little nieces and many times I ended up doing what they wanted instead. But I really like the way you always work your way around kids, this is very helpful, thanks a lot.Yulianahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11790226969198458998noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2719233744423338345.post-15760341649573629422010-12-13T18:20:06.955-08:002010-12-13T18:20:06.955-08:00THAT'S TRUE AND GOOD.THAT'S TRUE AND GOOD.Derlinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15620511161381364909noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2719233744423338345.post-28653271406740492652010-12-13T18:08:26.777-08:002010-12-13T18:08:26.777-08:00Hello Mrs. Evelyn,
Really good negotiating Mrs. ...Hello Mrs. Evelyn,<br /><br /><br />Really good negotiating Mrs. Evelyn I will surely use this with my kids they could be a little demanding at times and never really knew how to deal with it, now I know how to negotiate with them and at the same time keep them happy.lizahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08333097167378856764noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2719233744423338345.post-57128068892556912352010-12-13T12:04:51.443-08:002010-12-13T12:04:51.443-08:00My mom never negotiated with me lol. It was always...My mom never negotiated with me lol. It was always her way, but it was with my little brother that we needed to negotiate with all the time. These are really good to practice with kids.Edithhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15211948060218527366noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2719233744423338345.post-85004991042547303632010-12-13T08:14:48.817-08:002010-12-13T08:14:48.817-08:00This is a very interesting way of dealing with chi...This is a very interesting way of dealing with children. It's true that you are allowing them to have their say but at the same time you are still the authority. Your blogs are very helpful as I now look after the 10-13 years old's in my church. And I am learning how to deal with young children without sounding patronising.Sibon Phirihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10846447270034026108noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2719233744423338345.post-68321992320130956282010-12-12T22:16:04.501-08:002010-12-12T22:16:04.501-08:00I love this!!! To be honest what I would have done...I love this!!! To be honest what I would have done or said is "Te la pones por la buena o te la pones por la mala" its like saying are we doing this the easy way or the hard way! <br /><br />I mean thats the way I was taught, but like in the end its like you just end up with a big headache instead of accomplishing anything<br /><br />I love your Idea its so much better!Izamar Romerohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09272909910980656276noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2719233744423338345.post-67028800248045622282010-12-12T21:50:33.628-08:002010-12-12T21:50:33.628-08:00This is very smart way of dealing with kids, since...This is very smart way of dealing with kids, since everyone is a winner in the end. I remember my mom doing this with my sister, its very interesting what kids are capable of thinking. <br />Bianca LBiancahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13852286359093766133noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2719233744423338345.post-8778895076895180672010-12-12T21:10:28.411-08:002010-12-12T21:10:28.411-08:00I think this is a great way to deal with kids, at ...I think this is a great way to deal with kids, at the end everyone's a winner! Mrs. Evelyn, you a a great mother and should consider writing about parenting. All mothers should followers!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2719233744423338345.post-14174424684235008752010-12-12T20:51:37.424-08:002010-12-12T20:51:37.424-08:00This is a very smart way of dealing with kids. I r...This is a very smart way of dealing with kids. I remember with my own brothers, the times I would just tell them they couldn't have something done their way, or tell them what to do, they would even listen because they knew they had to, but they wouldn't be happy at all which would in turn not make me feel happy either... When I learned about how kids love attention (for some reason we tend to forget this fact as we grow older), and started making them feel like they could be the ones to choose, I would get the result I wanted and they would still be happy in the end... thanks for this post!Lillianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01451935422583920114noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2719233744423338345.post-63615138364843482472010-12-12T18:41:21.453-08:002010-12-12T18:41:21.453-08:00Wow that's awesome! I really admire how you th...Wow that's awesome! I really admire how you think outside the box! These are really good tactics!Sulma Navidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11693314769459634245noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2719233744423338345.post-63720212168746422072010-12-12T07:07:52.414-08:002010-12-12T07:07:52.414-08:00I really like this post. This is a very good advic...I really like this post. This is a very good advice for me.<br /><br />Thank You!!!<br /><br />(ADRIANNE ESCARRAMAN-- NY, ALTO MANHATTAN)Adrianne Escarramanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14631904892106839742noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2719233744423338345.post-31283749194078188702010-12-11T19:43:19.239-08:002010-12-11T19:43:19.239-08:00Good night my darling big sister!
Very good your p...Good night my darling big sister!<br />Very good your posts. and it is true we always do what we think is right, but the problem is that we think as adults, and make decisions as adults.<br />Decisions more complicated ...<br />And it would be easier if we think like children because we understand them more<br />I remember there was a time I was baby sister of two children.<br />One was 1 year and had another three years.<br />The 3 year always wanted to choose clothes that she wanted to use.<br />The problem is that she did not have a good style, hahahahahaha<br />Always wanted to put what was uglier,<br />The shoe of one color and one of another color, the opposite side of the shirt etc. .. And the more I spoke not, she cried more to wear that dress.<br />But my concern was not that she was dressed wrong.<br />But it was because I was thinking of me, because I was ashamed to walk with her by my side like that and people laugh.<br />It is a regret that at that time did not blog this!<br />I would certainly have helped me a lot.<br />Kisses and see you tomorrowÉrica Paula Santoshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04804147359780560662noreply@blogger.com